funny thing Happend to me Today my wife told me she leaving

[Zantheus]

Hear an Update for you guy's out there My wife came to see me today and we talked she want's to work things out, but with a catch and hear the catch she want me to take a year off from the bussiness.

And take a year off to travel to find the person she loved because in the last 6 months she as said to me that I'm not the same person she fell in love with.

So guy when I get this pot of my leg in 5 weeks I'm going to pack my Backpack up and head across Europe and then across to the States to find out what the hell it is I have lost.

To try save my marriage call me crazy she as given me 48hr to decide.

Thats good to hear man...you do what u have to in order to save the marriage

[TheSilentAssassin]

Great News!!! Glad things are going better!!

[Dead_And_Gone]

I HATE Ultimatum's. I know too many people who would
immediately reject it just because of that.

WOW, A year to do walk-about? Nice to have money stocked away.

We ALL change over time, due to a multitude of pressure's.
We evolve, change, adapt. She didn't have the kids when you
first were involved. Sorry, that is GOING TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
It will change everyone's that are involved and interacting.

I'm not the man my wife married, and she is not the same woman.
What was it that entranced her about you anyway? That's the key.

Have to remember, her emotions are topsy turvy right now, and what
she is saying now may not have the same punch later on.

Good luck mate.

[drunken_chef]

good luck indeed. ultimatum's are relationship breakers IMO.

[Storm_Shadow]

I'm late into this, ghost_rain. Ultimatums can be a real downer...

But if she's worth having and keeping (you know if this is true or not), then a year might just not be too much to ask. I wish you both the best, and hope that you both ultimately find what you're looking for.

[Ghost_Rain]

Yes mate it true I swear on the bible and My kids Lifes

[Gremlin_flg]

Good luck Ghost Rain

[minfootball]

good luck, keep in touch
maybe someone could make a map of all the places ghost_rain travels?
would be an interesting trip

[FieryDragon]

I'm very sorry to hear the bad news. If you do love her...the leg will heal no matter what(Trust me...I've had several operations on my leg)...get up and get her back!