funny thing Happend to me Today my wife told me she leaving

[Ghost_Rain]

You want to know how I really feel about it I feel like my heart been ripped out the been smashed to pices with a Jack Hammer.

As for beer I only have a beer once in a while, As for another baby I just need time to get my head round it.

The thing is what really get me mad she never told me she want another Baby may be if she talked to me about it first then yer it may have been a lot easyer to get my head around it.

I'll give it a few days and see what happens,

[Zantheus]

You want to know how I really feel about it I feel like my heart been ripped out the been smashed to pices with a Jack Hammer.

As for beer I only have a beer once in a while, As for another baby I just need time to get my head round it.

The thing is what really get me mad she never told me she want another Baby may be if she talked to me about it first then yer it may have been a lot easyer to get my head around it.

I'll give it a few days and see what happens,

Yes man that is the proper thing to do...give it a few days so the tempers and emotions cool a bit...then try and have a decent discussion with her to see if there is a base of comprimise...wish you the best bro

[TheSilentAssassin]

GO AFTER HER!!
If you love and care about her, then you will not let her go. Just my opinion.

[nickleal98]

My wife has threatned to leave me plenty of times, I have four kids and love them more than anything! We have actully split a few times, but we did some couselor (a christian one), it did some good, right now She is in Montana at a funeral and it's little pre planned breaks will do good for you.


Now go get her and remind her why you got together in the first place!!!

[Gremlin_flg]

How many kids do you have seriously??

She might be going through a phase where she needs attention. You guys need to talk it out. Give it a day or so. good luck bud

[Dead_And_Gone]

If she leaves just because you don't throw a party, there are other issues
at stake. Whatever happened to thick and thin, better or worse.

My wife has threatened several times to leave, but never has.
I keep hoping though.

best of wishes for you mate.
Hope it works out for the best for everyone.

[Ghost_Rain]

How many kids do you have seriously??

She might be going through a phase where she needs attention. You guys need to talk it out. Give it a day or so. good luck bud

I have 4 to other people one to her and one on the way. and yes I love her.

[{CLR} Major.Massacre]

I hope things will work out for your family. Remember its easy to quit, and harder to stay and work things out, but if you truly love this woman you will do whats best for each other. Take care.

[nikaios]

Holy crap man, I'll keep you guys in my prayers... it's my sincere hope that you guys get it sorted out.

[Minerva]

Prepare some tea, have a long chat about how you two feel.

comunication.

[Ghost_Rain]

Easer said than she will not pick up the phone.

[Minerva]

Easer said than she will not pick up the phone.

Then go where she is. Show her that you really care. Don't ask for oportunities or stuff like that, tell her that you want to fix things and you want to talk about it deeply so you can arrange it. The premise is that you love her (and I assume she loves you too). If both of you have to make changes in your lives, make them. The most important things are your children and your happiness. Try hard for that.

In my opinion. And I know it is easy to say...

[Ghost_Rain]

That the thing I no idea where she staying she did not turn up for work today, But I writen her a long email About 3am this morning I'll give her a few day to clam down.

[BigTwinky]

If she did not show up for work, then this is sounding like she has more crap going on right now that is apparent.

[Ghost_Rain]

Hear an Update for you guy's out there My wife came to see me today and we talked she want's to work things out, but with a catch and hear the catch she want me to take a year off from the bussiness.

And take a year off to travel to find the person she loved because in the last 6 months she as said to me that I'm not the same person she fell in love with.

So guy when I get this pot of my leg in 5 weeks I'm going to pack my Backpack up and head across Europe and then across to the States to find out what the hell it is I have lost.

To try save my marriage call me crazy she as given me 48hr to decide.