Cya

[Hammy]

When an admin sends you an email with a warning about insulting someone, encloses the thread that you commented in, and in that thread it includes the comment by another admin who instigated the conversation by insulting you- I call that nuts and power abuse. I'm wrong, but because of their position, they are fine. Ooookay.....

Third time is a charm with this particular admin- and he is in the elite list of 4 alongside Cain, so that says alot. There will be defense, this thread may possibly dissappear as they have in the past.

In the short period of time I was an admin, and the 2 years I was a full time member, I have seen good and bad. The worst is now, and it sucks- kinda like when you realize a longtime friend and you must part ways because you no longer have anything left in common.

To my friends, you know how to find me and where I play. To the rest of you, I wish you the best of everything.

Cains Lair will always have a special place in my heart, minus the Admin in the elite 4 that is helping this place slip.

Hammy

P.S. - Dont ever sign up for a subscription, they will continue to charge your paypal account even when you cancel, and you can expect hell to freeze over before you get a refund. I have signed up for a new account rather than deal with this.

[Skud]

Weird, I've never seen you insult anyone. :scratch:

[Pumpkin_Jack]

Weird, I've never seen you insult anyone. :scratch:

Its a personal beef thats been continuing for a long time, both hammy and the admin in question make sly comments directed twords each-other rather they think about or not when they do it. No direct references of course.

[Cain]

Hammy as usual I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about with any of the babble in your post and you have never mentioned any of this to anyone I know.

Dude, you really might want to consider getting some type of professional help, I can only imagine what it must be like to work with you, or to try and be your friend.

I can see now why you have to get law enforcement involved with people you deal with in Real Life and you have all the drama in your personal life.

As always take care, and best wishes for the future.

[BlackArrow]

Dear AngryHamster (yes, I will call you by your longtime original name since it seems more appropriate than your recent attempt to convince people that you are just cuddly "Hammy"),

I don't know who the admin was that sent you an email or what it may have said, but I thought of sending you a message as well. In my 4 years in the Lair, the vast majority of my experiences have been wonderful. I have found here a community brought together over more than a decade by one person - Cain - based on his incredible devotion to creating a welcoming and respectful environment for players in his servers and these forums. The fact that we have over 4,500 registered members and full servers is a testament to the success of his devotion.

Players and admins have come and gone over the years and we have seen our share of great human beings and some, as Borat would say, "not so much". But I have to say that in my limited time here (twice as long as yours)…that I have never seen a person either in game or in the forums, who has aliented more people and in several cases, led them to outright leave Cain's Lair, than you. Why? Because of your constant need to express your opinions forcefully and with little tact or maturity, demanding respect from us, while at the same time showing no respect for anyone that may have a different opinion. You claim to be a beta male personality - as if that gave you carte blanche to desrepect and run over anyone you choose - and not expect people to react.

You have been incessant in your need to create a division in the Lair - those that you think like you or agree with you and everyone else. Your longtime friends have been "putting up with you" all this time and the fact is that you just haven't been listening over the sound of how awesome you are. The Lair is about loyalty to one cause - good mature gaming - and if there is one person who people need to like or not that is Cain…not you!! I get the feeling that your ego is way to big for this place and you just can't get the attention you require. So I support your decision to leave….for the third time…..as I hope you find that attention somewhere else.

Once again you decide to post your last little fit here….for the third time…..choosing to create a divide…one last swipe at those that have been your friends in spite of how you have treated them.

I think it's time for you to finally move on and let those of us that are clearly not to your liking get on with our lives and our games and our mutual friendship.

I am not a fan of drama. Good luck to you and I wish you the best.

BA